8 Things to build confidence in the saddle
September 17, 2025
Confidence in the saddle can be shaped by many different factors. Horses are large animals, and for many riders, that alone can feel intimidating. Others may be completely comfortable around horses but struggle with the fear of falling, or with the pressure to be perfect every time they ride. No matter the reason, every rider faces moments where confidence is tested.
Lets get into the 8 things that can help boost confidence around horses,
Number 1: Start Small
Begin with simple groundwork to get to know the horse you’re working with. Spend time grooming, leading, or even lunging—these quiet moments help you get comfortable around your equine partner. The more ease you feel on the ground, the more confidence you’ll carry into the saddle.
Number 2: Ride Consistently
If you have the opportunity to ride as often as possible, take it. Frequent riding helps establish a routine for both you and your horse(s). A consistent routine builds trust and confidence.
Number 3: Set Goals
Even the smallest goals can make a big difference in your time with your horse. Maybe today’s goal is simply grooming, giving treats, or tacking up without riding. Or perhaps it’s taking a short walk under saddle, teaching a new trick on the ground, or confidently jumping a few small fences. Each goal, no matter how small, builds connection, trust, and progress—both for you and your horse.
Number 4: Small Talk
The little voice in your head can set the tone for your next ride. Instead of thinking, “I can’t” or “I don’t know how,” try shifting to an “I’m learning” mindset. This reminds you that it’s okay to make mistakes and learn from them. Embracing this mindset helps build confidence as you grow and improve with your horse.
Number 5: Ride a School Master
Not everyone has access to this, but if you have the chance to ride a well-rounded horse, take it. Riding a seasoned or “school master” horse can boost your confidence and teach you something new. If you’re new to riding—or usually work with a more challenging horse—hopping on a steady, experienced horse can help rebuild trust and strengthen your skills.
Number 6: Visualize Your Ride
Sometimes it helps to “manifest” your ride. Before you even get on, imagine a calm, focused, and enjoyable ride. Setting your mind and body up for success can make a big difference. Rides may change depending on your horse, but starting with the intention of an easy, relaxed ride sets the stage for a positive experience.
Number 7: Dress the Part
Sometimes it’s as simple as feeling confident during your ride. Arrive at the barn dressed in your favorite riding clothes. When you feel confident, it shows—and that confidence can translate to your horse, helping both of you perform your best.
Number 8: Don’t Compare yourself to others
One of the biggest confidence challenges today is comparing yourself to others—especially with social media at our fingertips. But every rider has their own unique journey, and your progress is just that—yours. Focusing on your own growth, milestones, and experiences can help you ride with more confidence and joy, no matter where you are in your journey.
